Are you ready for love? Are you ready to give all? “To have, you must Give”. Giving a little is not adequate. To have “it” all you must give your All. The confusion we have is that by giving all we are vulnerable to pain or we think by giving we are losing something. The ego hates to loose and will not chance loosing. Starting a realtionship from this fear position challenges its future viability. Seldom do we throw caution to the wind. Seldom do we love with wreckless abandon. Seldom do we surrender to a realtionship and become completelty vulnerable. Seldom do we Love. We condition and we expect, seldom does this evolve into the Love of your Life. Love is an afterthought in so many relationships. The word, love, is so overused that the concept of love is diminshed to an idea of love. The idea, very often, is what motivates relationships. Our experiences of love from childhood to maturity are colored by the lack of love more than the unconditional love we seek or anticipate. Our ideas of love are very different from the love we have or do experience. We, therefore, are repeatedly disappointed and heart broken when love is not what we “expected”.

We all strive to be accepted and, in some subconscious way, we are continuously manifesting our need to be loved in behaviorial ways which camouflage our underlying need for love. This is not a psychological need. It is a profound Spititual need to be reunited with the Source of All that is, but when we come to the edge of the abyss, we fail to “jump”. We FEAR!

How can we overcome this fear? Letting Go! This says we have to subordinate our egocentric  conditions and perceptions to a higher goal. Ego is nothing more than a fearful thought. Take away the ego and love blossoms. Perfect love overcomes fear.

Allowing others “to be” is also a requirement for love. This Allowing is a result of a deep understanding and connection with Spiritual laws. So our search fo love comes from a search for the Self. The self in this context is the Kingdom of God. There is a scripture which says, first find the Kingdom and all else will be given unto you. Since the Kingdom is within, there is no other place to find Love than through an inner journey. Love is there and always has been. The Ego has shrouded the Kingdom and the love thoughout your life. Are You Ready? You always have been ready, just not willing. Decide to open your heart to All and you will have All.

This is a choice and it is your choice. An exercise in Freewill. Decide and it will be given you.

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