There are times when all three of these occur at the same time. Even when they come one at a time there is emotional upheavel in our lives. Why do these occurences upset us so much?

When I encounter situations which manifest these breakages in my life I begin the process of asking why. Why did so and so do this? why am I so upset? How could I have done anything different? Who is at fault, etc, etc. I always arrive at the same answer if I continue to deconstruct the whys and wherefores to their fundamental essence.

The expectations I had were unfulfilled and someone failed to perform according to “my” expectations. The why of my feeling of betrayal breaks down to not being respected and ultimately, feeling I am not loved. The feeling of not being loved was instilled at childhood. The violation of expectations comes from egoic/self-centered thinking. In most cases circumstances are neutral. We bring the emotion and perception and these, both, colored by our past experiences and belief systems which have been conditioning us from early childhood. Yes, I am continuing to propose that the emotional aspect of our lives and the perceptions which result from these emotions are our biggest obstacle to our mental well being and our success.

I encourage you to look deeply into the emtions which are occuring and find the basis for the turmoil. If you can do this without feeling or adopting the “victim” mentality, you will begin to see that the neutrality of situations is only disrupted when expectations and ego are engaged.

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